Buttercream can fix anything. That's what my boss at the boutique cake shop in NYC used to say all the time. I am not going to lie...she was a pretty terrible boss, but these words of wisdom have stuck with me over the years. And while I am pretty sure she was talking about fixing uneven cakes and fondant blemishes, I decided to adopt this saying into every aspect of my life.
Last week I got STRAIGHT UP ghosted by a guy. I am not talking about a normal ghost - those happen all the time. I am talking about a HARD CORE ghosting situation. After 6 weeks of talking (which in online dating, is basically a lifetime), we finally picked a day to meet - and I was excited!
I know what you are thinking. You have done this a million times LINDSAY! And EVERY. SINGLE. TIME. you are disappointed. So why do you get your hopes up?!
And you are 100% right. After all my not so fantastic experiences in the dating trenches, I should know better. But you guys...this boy was really REALLY funny! And when you come from a family of seriously hilarious men - it is pretty important that a guy can make you laugh. And this guy could definitely do that.
So everything was going great (lots of laughs happening on this end) until the day before we were supposed to meet, which happened to be Thanksgiving. We were texting in the morning about a podcast I had showed him, and then out of nowhere, he just stopped texting me. Like nothing...ever again.
Ummmm excuse me sir...WTF?! Who talks to someone for 6 weeks, makes a plan to meet and then ghosts them on a National Holiday?! Are you some kind of monster? Because I didn't even get to enjoy my mashed potatoes because of you...and that my friend, is a real crime.
Long story short...ok it wasn't that short...that night I turned to my good old friend buttercream. I piled it high on some brownies and just WENT TO TOWN. In conclusion - buttercream > boys. Always and FOREVER.
So now but back to the point of this post - which buttercream reigns supreme? I honestly think this is a personal choice, but I am going to tell you why I like and dislike the three main players.
Frosting made with a base of powdered sugar and butter or shortening. Add a little flavor and milk and you are done!
Pros - Super quick and easy peasy! It also pipes nicely.
Cons - This guys is a heavy duty frosting. It can be a little difficult to get super smooth on a cake, and it is also VERY sweet.
This is the frosting I grew up using. It is a pretty good overall frosting, but I never use this one on the outside of a cake. I mainly use this icing for fillings, and on top of cupcakes.
Egg whites and sugar are cooked together over boiling water until they reach a certain temperature. It is then transferred to a mixer and whipped into a meringue before adding butter and flavoring.
Pros - It is soft, smooth and not too sweet. SM buttercream is arguably the best frosting in terms of cake decorating because it is the easiest way to get those smooth clean lines.
Cons - It is SUPER annoying to make. You have to have time and patience for this one (which I don't usually have either).
While I rarely make this one, I will admit this is the best buttercream out there. I'm pretty sure my hatred for this guy comes from a time I had to make 17 single batches in a row. So you will have to make it and be your own judge.
Sugar and water cooked over the stove while egg whites are whipped in the mixer. Once the sugar reaches the "soft ball stage", you add it to the egg whites. After it cools down, you add butter and flavor.
Pros - It is soft, smooth and not too sweet. It also gives you those sharp edges on a cake - it is just not as easy to smooth as the Swiss.
Cons - It takes a while for the eggs whites/sugar mixture to cool down in the mixer. But you can just leave it running and go do other things.
This is my go to. I use it ALL the time.
Ok that is all I have for you today! Recipes are all below - and if you have any questions - feel free to ask!
*1 batch of buttercream
Thank you for answering my question. I think we will try the Italian one!!! Tomorrow is the day. Wish us luck!!!!
Have so much fun!
Hey. Love your site!! My daughter and I bake together all the time and her 12th birthday is coming up and she wants a white two layer cake with strawberry filling. Which sounds delicious. Which frosting would be better...the Swiss or Italian?? We wanted to go with something less sweet. Thanks so much!!!
That sounds like a delicious way to celebrate a 12th birthday. I think Swiss and Italian are similar in terms of sweetness - so it really is up to you. I prefer Italian because I find it is easier to make :)
Thanks. I’ll probably use the Italian again since it was so tasty on the sprinkle cake!
The Italian is definitely my favorite!
So if you were piping the whole cake using #18 star tip, what would you use? BTW, LOVED your pink sprinkle cake for my daughter’s birthday. Everyone was impressed. Thanks.
Hi Ciara! I am so sorry I missed this comment! You can use any of these buttercreams with a start tip! They will all work great. And I am SO happy to hear that everyone loved the cake!
Hmmm you forgot about French and German buttercreams? German is my personal favourite, less sweet and not meringue based. The classic filling in a bienenstich.
I have never actually tried those! I will have to try them!
The Italian is the best!! The Swiss tastes a bit too buttery for me but I love how these two don't have the too sweet taste of American buttercream.
I love the Italian as well! And it is so much easier to make than the Swiss!
1) I’d like to know if the Italian or Swiss buttercream can be made like a day ahead, refrigerated, then used to decorate cupcakes the next day. 2) after I decorate the cupcakes with the Swiss or Italian buttercream...can I freeze them? (I often make about 5+ dozen for my grandnieces birthday parties - and making, decorating the cupcakes ahead of time (plus freezing them) is crucial. In addition, the cupcakes are much easier for me to transport to the destination as well as to get out of their plastic containers without dinging the icing.
Hi Cheryl! All of the buttercreams can be kept in the fridge for 3-4 days. They can also be kept in the freezer for about 3 months. After the freezer, place the buttercream in the fridge for 1 day and then you can take it out and use it! For the best results, I like to re-whip the buttercreams once they reach room temperature. This just ensures they are nice and creamy. And yes, you can totally freeze the cupcakes with the buttercream on them! You are so nice to make all those cupcakes for your grandnieces! Please let me know if you have any more questions.
SMBC 4EVA ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ I can't get the Italian to work for me. I have trouble with Italian macarons too - I prefer the French method. Stupid hot sugar and egg whites. Ugh!! ????????
Really?! What happens when you try to make it?
It is a known fact that the ridiculousness of ghosts is rampant in this technology ruled world, ,but who knew life had so many buttercream choices!? That pretty much makes up for the rude ghosts! ✨Just sayin✨ I def wanna try the Italian Meringue Buttercream ❣️????
They are all pretty great!!!
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